Welcome to Sunshine & Chai.

Brewing stories and stirring souls since June 2024

Have you ever been swept away by a wave of emotions, followed by guilt, anger, and the relentless “why me?” thoughts?

It’s as if you’re the only one feeling this way, and you start to wonder if there’s something fundamentally flawed within you.

Instead of showing compassion to yourself, you find yourself questioning your feelings—wondering if they stem from a deep-seated flaw or if they’re just the result of your upbringing.

I’ve been there. More times than I’d like to admit.

Welcome to Sunshine & Chai.

A collection of personal essays that decode life’s experiences, unearthing the beauty, humor, and lessons in the chaos. And stories that forge a connection, stir your heart, and leave a touch of sunshine in your soul. Sprinkled with hand-lettered quotes and illustrations.

I share these essays and stories to help you navigate life in a way that’s true to who you are at your core—beyond society’s expectations. My hope is that other women feel less alone and find comfort in knowing they’re not the only ones walking this path.

Every essay is a reflection on something that sparks my creative curiosity.

Through my journey—hustling in tech at the cost of my well-being, navigating the weight of societal expectations, enduring the relentless pressure of staying in tech as an immigrant, being an only child, losing my mom, and balancing the grief of loss while caring for my aging dad who lives across the globe—I’ve learned what truly matters.

I’ve witnessed firsthand how cancer and blindness can slowly erode a person’s vitality. I’ve found the courage to let go of relationships that no longer served me and set healthier boundaries.

In the process, I’ve discovered who I am, what I need (and don’t need) to live, and embrace a more conscious, intentional life.

Rooted in observations, adventures, and travels and sprinkled with personal stories, these essays resonate with you and bring comfort, clarity, or even just a moment of pause to someone walking a similar path.

As you read, I hope you forget the hustle and the endless to-do lists, and simply sink into the stories.

Like sipping your morning chai in a quiet, sunlit café with a friend.

Where everyone is having a good time, learning from each other and growing.

I want you to feel this same sense of connection when you read Sunshine & Chai.

To know that you’re not alone in this journey—that others are navigating the same storm. We are all woven together in this shared experience.

My hope is that these stories inspire you to embrace life fully and unapologetically, to step into who you truly are.

Think of this as a ritual—one that sparks dreams and possibilities, a moment you look forward to, a pause that helps you reset and unwind.

I plan to write daily for 30 minutes and share 1-2 essays each month. But I hold this goal lightly, knowing that I cherish a slow, unhurried life—one where depth and meaning matter more than speed. I’d rather create something excellent than simply on time.

Come on in!